Bonus tahun 2012

Syukur pada Allah yang memurahkan rezeki sumanje tahun nie...
Walaupun tak banyak mana yang su manje dapat bonus tahun nie....... 1.6 daripada 3.0
Company su bagi pada su sudah cukup untuk sumanje simpan buat bekalan di masa susah...
Syukur su...
Bagi mereka yang dapat banyak dari su Tahniah sumanje ucapkan.....
Ape pun kita di bawah satu payung yang sama.....
Sama-sama mencari rezeki yang halal...
syukur sesangat-sangat su...
Langkah pertama su buat pembayaran ZAKAT kepada mereka yang berhak....
Syukur dapat di tunaikan dengan izin yang maha ESA...
amin..
Langkah seterusnya su tak de Idea lagi so su simpan je....
Nak beli barang keperluan dah beli.....
Lagi satu su nie tak suka window shooping.....
Lebih suka adap LP nie....

Getting What You Want in a Relationship: Love - Unconditional Love

It feels like a thousand years ago, but is really only ten, I gave my life partner of that time, a huge, human sized, teddy bear. I carried it on a flight, even arranged for a spare seat on the plane for him. It was one of those "cute romantic and special gifts" you give someone you hope stays playful and joyful in love with you. It cost me about half the gold in the Reserve Bank of Australia. Nice....

I gave it in what I thought was an unconditional gesture of my heart, but unconditional it was not.

I suitably shocked my friend when she picked me up at the airport. It was as big if not bigger than her and with the beautiful bow of gift around it's neck drew all sorts of ooooh's and aaaaaah's and made most of Adelaide's international airport swoon with romance for a morning. It was love, and yes, it was mine. Unconditional.

My friend dropped me at my hotel, I checked into what was to be "our" hotel room. My first meeting was at 9.00am so my friend went home to pick up her night bag and a few clothes so we could share our delicious hotel room and a romantic weekend. All was great.

When she arrived back, I asked her about Teddy. Where's Teddy might have been my sophisticated way of suggesting he spend the weekend with us in the hotel room. It was all part of the champagne, roses and generosity I felt would make this a spectacular and memorable weekend

"I gave it to my Niece" says my friend...

It was an exceptional moment. Hundreds - many hundreds - of dollars, flying with it, building myself up for a special moment, romance filling the air, roses, champagne, and WHAT? She owned it for 10 minutes?

Brilliant insight... in the following years as I travelled the world running my Real Spirit Retreats, I would host a game based on Teddy and his short life for a huge cost. I'd ask attendees to return on the second day of their retreat with a gift for somebody in the room, something important for them to give away, something to let go of, symbolic or material. Attendees would come to day two, and I'd ask them to randomly partner up, and exchange the gift.

I'd see that look on people's faces, that generosity, that warmth that comes from giving, that wonderful happiness that comas from doing good for others, and in many cases I'd see a real emotional unburdening as people gave away important things that did, in truth, belong to the past.

Then, I'd ask those who received the gift, to gift that gift to someone else.

Happiness was replaced with anger. Resentment steamed from ears like a boiling kettle, some people used laughter to unravel that nervous knot in their stomach, some complained to me, few enjoyed the fact that "Teddy was given away."

We often say "I love you" - we say it to our children, to our partner, to parents and sometimes close friends. That "I love you" is a Teddy gift. We hope, when we give it, that it sticks where we landed it. And yet, when a partner leaves, a child defies us, a company changes things, a relative dies, we slump into "Post Teddy Resentment" - our love was not gifted unconditionally, it had, like my Teddy gift, an expectation attached.

Many times we give love in order to control someone, or, we love in order to get what we want. Our giving is often conditional. Like my Teddy, I doubt if I'd have spent that money knowing that the term of "joy" would be no more than an hour. The gift had an outcome, and so was conditional.

Indahnya Saat Bercinta

Salam Buat Semua...
Tiada yang dapat ku gambarkan di tulisan maya ini...
Ntahlah segalanya manis bak madu...
malu rasanya nak meluahkan apa yang kurasakan selama ini...
Tentu indah jika dapat ku kupas satu-persatu keindahan itu..
Cinta itu buta...Adakah cinta bermata....
Aku masih tertanya-tanya.......dimana akhirnya perjalanan cinta suci ini...
Masih meraba dalam kegelapan.....
Masih samar samar .....
Tuhan bantulah aku ini.........
Semoga dapat diberikan petunjuk dan hidayah dikala aku kesuraman
Dan semoga aku tidak leka dan alpa di alam Cinta dunia ini..
Memang indah dan sungguh tak terkata...
Dibuang ombak mimpi indah yang menjadi realiti..
Esok bakal indah
Lusa begitu jua......
Tapi kurasakan tiada yang kekal lama di dunia ini...
Semuanya sementara dan melekakan ku...
Ntahlah.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mungkin ujian Nya pada ku ...
di berikan keindahan dan...diuji dengan kebahagian yang sekucup-cukup indah..
Adakah aku akan hanyut di arus ini....?

Alam Percintaan

Alangkah indahnya di alam percintaan ,
Itulah yang sedang Sumanje alami...
Lama tak bukak blog.......sibuk dengan cinta,,,, cinta cinta....
Bak kata orang cinta itu buta..
Begini rupanya di alam percintaan...
Seronoknya........!!!!!!!!!!!!
Segalanya indah .....Indah tak terucap...
em.........................
Harapan su.. semoga alam ini di akhiri dengan kebahagian yang kekal adabi
Itulah Doa suManje....
Kata orang cinta boleh buatkan kita lupa......
Betul......! su sendiri dah alami ....boleh buang mak buang bapa kerana cinta..
Mujur ada sahabat dan sanak saudara yang nasihatkan Su....
Mula-mula masuk kiri keluar kanan...pastu bila di renung-renung kembali ada banyak yang betulnya...
Thanks so much pada anda semua...